I shall have to go and see it! I've neglected English cemeteries for too long. I think I'm spoilt because we have a couple of lovely old ones in this village alone.

I honestly don't know where the Wilde tradition came from. I first saw that grave in 2000 and there were only really lipstick marks on the back. It's absolutely covered in lipstick and graffiti these days and it's pretty intrusive.